Having been married for eight years, I can still remember the day my ex-husband proposed to me. It was a Sunday afternoon at church and I was surrounded by friends and family. Given the fact that my husband to be was the pastor of the church, the proposal was a day that we all were destined to remember. I was so thrilled to tell my best girlfriends the big news…..I’M GETTING MARRIED! I’m sure we all can agree that that’s some of the most exciting news to share with your GIRLS. Although, it is a magical time in a woman’s life, several changes come along with the news. Having a man in your life takes up a lot of your free time leaving us to deal with one topic in particular; how do we juggle our social life now that we are married? Do we involve more married couples into our social lives as a couple or should we continue to intermingle with our single girlfriends the majority of the time as though nothing has changed? And how do we handle bringing and assisting our husbands into accepting our GIRLS? And most importantly what happens when your husband and your girl just don’t see eye to eye? Of course standing by your man is something you have now vowed to do, but you can’t over look the fact that your girl has been there through many years of laughter, tears, and ups and downs.